There are people IN HELL THAT LOVE YOU and do not want you to arrive there with them. Hell is so painful that I guarantee there is someone there today that wishes they could send you a message not to come.
The only thing you can do to COMFORT your brother if he’s in hell – is not to go there. The only thing you can do to COMFORT your great great great grandfather if he’s in hell – is to not go there with him.
There might be someone in hell praying for you more than the people on earth are!
Luke 16
23 And in hell he lift up his eyes, being in torments, and seeth Abraham afar off, and Lazarus in his bosom.
24 And he cried and said, Father Abraham, have mercy on me, and send Lazarus, that he may dip the tip of his finger in water, and cool my tongue; for I am tormented in this flame.
25 But Abraham said, Son, remember that thou in thy lifetime receivedst thy good things, and likewise Lazarus evil things: but now he is comforted, and thou art tormented.
26 And beside all this, between us and you there is a great gulf fixed: so that they which would pass from hence to you cannot; neither can they pass to us, that would come from thence.
27 Then he said, I PRAY THEE therefore, father, that thou wouldest send him to my father’s house:
28 For I HAVE FIVE BRETHREN; that he may testify unto them, LEST THEY ALSO COME TO THIS PLACE OF TORMENT.
